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Anonymous posted a condolence
Thursday, July 14, 2016
When my husband, Jerry Godin, saw Doug's obituary in the Star, he told me about their friendship in high school back in Sault Ste Marie. It was clear back then that Doug was a very special person. After high school their paths crossed at the boat club but their career choices took them to different cities. I wish I had had a chance to meet Doug. He was certainly a fine person. Eleanor Godin
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Monday, July 11, 2016
Norma my sincere condolences to you and your family, Coach was a special person who was admired by all. You are in my prayers. Kayla
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Sunday, July 10, 2016
To the Hargreaves family, please accept our deepest condolences for your loss. I hope that you can take comfort in your memories of Doug and in the knowledge that he had a profound impact on thousands of young people. Throughout my career, I often found myself leaning on Doug s wisdom, his witticisms and his outlook on life be flexible and have a sense of humour is a wonderful adage to live ones life by. His impact on all of us, transcended the football field. Our prayers are with you. Ed and Hanna Kidd
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Sunday, July 10, 2016
Norma and family, Barb and myself send our deepest condolences on Doug's passing. I had the privilege of playing football for Doug at RMC in 1968-1970, and what a privilege it was. He was an incredibly professional and inspirational individual who had a very positive impact on me personally. Thank you Doug for being a leader and mentor for so many. Bill and Barb Brewer
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Sunday, July 10, 2016
Dear Norma and family,
"Our lives are shaped as much by those who leave as by those who remain."
Our thoughts are with you all at this time.
It was a privilege to have known Doug for these many years.
Most sincerely,
Derek and Helen Mackesy
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Saturday, July 9, 2016
Norma and Family, our deepest condolences for the loss of a true leader. Doug's impact on all those lucky enough to learn under him was immeasurable. He was all about integrity and we are all better people by having him as a role model in such an important stage in our lives. If a good life can be measured by having a positive impact on others, Doug lived truly a great life (must have made a good choice of parents). Mark and Trish Morrison
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Saturday, July 9, 2016
Doug was a great mentor to my son Nicholas who was on the Queen's football team in his first year at Queen's. I did know him except through hearing a lot about him from Nick, but I always felt grateful to him for his kindness and generosity of spirit, and his encouragement of Nick to whom he was an inspiration and very positive role model.
Susan Falvo
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Saturday, July 9, 2016
Heartfelt condolences to Norma & Family upon the passing of my ol' bud & dear friend, Doug. As my son Shane just texted, "Thinking of Doug always makes me smile." We will be with you at the 'Irish Wake', at least in spirit.
Mabel & Allan MacKenzie & Family
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Saturday, July 9, 2016
An amazing Canadian, an incredible coach and a remarkable human being. I never played for him but I was a cadet at Rmc where we all respected him deeply. We later were colleagues in the PE&R classification and he had a major impact on my attitudes and capabilities as a coach. Rest in peace Doug and thank you for impact my life in a very positive way.
Earle Morris
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Friday, July 8, 2016
Norma, Vicki, Lynn, Gayle and Family: Thank you for sharing Doug with us. So many of us are so very much the better for having him in our lives. With love, Bob Mullen
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Friday, July 8, 2016
Dear Norma, Vicki, Lynn, and Gail, and family, we were very saddened to receive the news about Doug's passing, but know he is now at peace. His life's legacy lives on through you, and through all the young men he coached and guided throughout his career. I feel very fortunate to be one of these men. The lessons Doug taught me on the field have held me in good stead throughout my personal life and professional career. Sincerely, Jim and Mari Rutka
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Friday, July 8, 2016
MNorma,Vicki,Gayle,Lynn-I am so sad to hear of this loss. Doug was an inspiration to those of us who had the privelge and pleasure of working with him. having met him an a relatively early stage in my life(1967-RMC football staff),I always remembered the profound effect he had on all those around him. We are all "his" students/players and are better off for having known him. Elliott Jacobson
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Thursday, July 7, 2016
Norma and gang. Doug played a significant role in the lives of so many. He will be dearly missed by all. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Tish & Rob Ball
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Thursday, July 7, 2016
My deepest sympathies to Norma and family.
Coach was a legend in our Queen's Football loving family. When I graduated in 1998, I became a ticket checker at Panorama Mountain Village. There, I had the good fortune of seeing Doug and Norma at the hill nearly every day. I enjoyed his great sense of humor and was in awe of his obvious love for Norma.
Few people truly leave such a remarkable legacy. He was one of a kind. I am grateful to have had the chance to cross paths with him.
Robyn Colvin (Norrie)
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Thursday, July 7, 2016
Our deepest condolences to you Norma and those three wonderful women that we "baby sat" over fifty years ago. We have so many fond memories of time spent with the Hargeaves and we cherish greatly how Doug's guidance and direction influenced my life. As a life long friend of Ward I have acquired a "Big Brother"!
We regret that Judy's state of health and my older brother's placement in the local hospice will not allow us to get to Kingston to be with you.
Doug's life should be celebrated and always fondly remembered!
Love Dan and Judy Carmichael.
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Thursday, July 7, 2016
To the Hargreaves family, Doug inspired generations of young men. He did so by setting the most wonderful example relating to discipline, teamwork, character, and integrity He is a giant within his profession and, more importantly, in the memories of those who cherished him as their leader. Sincerely, Jamie Lewin
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Thursday, July 7, 2016
Doug lives on in not only his family but in the hearts and minds of all the players he developed. Long may his spirit be with everyone who knew and loved Doug, guiding you on the field of life.
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Thursday, July 7, 2016
Norma and family. Our sincerest condolences to you at this time. Coach Doug had a tremendous impact on my life.
Peter Harrison and family.
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Thursday, July 7, 2016
I am honoured to have been coached by Doug, and will always remember the simple life-lessons he reinforced:
"life is like a one way trip to the salad bar"
and,
"be flexible and have a sense of humour"
Sincere condolences to your family, Sam Stankovic
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Thursday, July 7, 2016
Dear Norma and the Hargreaves'family, our thoughts and prayers are with you. We will all miss a great coach. Ruth & Dennis Hrycaiko
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Thursday, July 7, 2016
Norma and Family. My family and I send our sincerest condolences and are thinking of you at this time.
Coach Doug had a tremendous impact on my life and I am forever grateful.
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Thursday, July 7, 2016
Norma and family, know our prayers are with you. Doug's legacy lives on in you and many of us who have been blessed with his presence and influence in our lives. God bless.
Jamie McKinnon
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Thursday, July 7, 2016
We are so glad we saw Doug awhile back when he was in KGH and were able to enjoy his sense of humour, even during a difficult time. Our visit with Norma reflected the loving bond she and Doug had during their 60 years of marriage. She is a pillar of strength. Our condolences to all the family during this sad time. Your memories will carry you through. Doug was such an accomplished, yet humble man and will always be remembered for his special influence in the lives of so many. Randy & Karen Edgeworth
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Thursday, July 7, 2016
Dear Norma, Vicki, Gayle, Lynn and family, as difficult as this journey has been for you it brings peace to know that your vigil has come to a close. Although the ordeal of your loss will be with you always celebrate the memories. Doug was a person who inspired us all. Although terrified of the larger than life, pensive, quiet man when a child, I grew to have tremendous respect for his personage. I am so grateful and blessed to have had him as my Uncle. Sincere condolance's from both of us. Michele and Beth
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Thursday, July 7, 2016
Norma and family: Eleanor and i offer you our most sincere condolences on the passing of Doug. What a wonderful life and career he shared with so many, many people who would become lifelong friends. We will not make it to Kingston at this time but you are in our prayers. We will see Ward in Bolton when he returns With our love, John and Eleanor Milliken
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Thursday, July 7, 2016
To the Hargreaves family, my sincere condolences to you for the loss of a great man and a true leader of men. I arrived at training camp in the Fall of 1988 as a young boy and graduated four years later as a man. During this time I learned the true lessons of teamwork, discipline and humility. On that first day I addressed him as Coach and he responded with "please call me Doug" Such a simple thing to make me feel respected and a part of the team. Thank you Doug for mentoring 19 years of Golden Gaels.
Sincerely, Dan Pawliw
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Thursday, July 7, 2016
Dear Norma and family. I was so very sad to hear of Doug's passing. He was a remarkable, kind and generous soul and positively influenced the lives of so many people. The small amount of time I had the pleasure to spend in his company remains a fond memory in my mind and heart. He will be greatly missed.
Sincerely, Belinda Scilley
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Wednesday, July 6, 2016
Norma, Vicki, Gayle, Lynn & family. My sincere condolences to you all on Doug's passing. You are all in our prayers. Doug, his character & what he stood for will be remembered for as long as I am alive. Scott Bissessar
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Wednesday, July 6, 2016
Norma, Lynn, Vicki and Gayle, and family--on behalf of the Queen's community, and ourselves, we send our deepest condolences to you all. Doug is and will be fondly remembered by the hundreds of former students and colleagues who knew him. Queen's has lost one of its true legends. Sincerely, Daniel Woolf and Julie Gordon-Woolf
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Wednesday, July 6, 2016
Norma & Family - Our thoughts are with you - many happy memories - Doug influenced both of us - Ed & Liz Andrew
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Anonymous posted a condolence
Wednesday, July 6, 2016
Norma & family
Our sincere condolences to you all on the passing of Doug. Our thoughts are with you during this most difficult time. Doug was a good friend and we regret we will not be able to attend the"Wake" but we will be there in thought and spirit.
Hank & Arlene
